mind over sex

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Initially I had wanted to write about what women should do to seduce and pleasure men, but now after committing myself to a relationship, I find sex not so simple to figure out, and decide I have no answers or advice.

So I begin reflecting and fantasizing; hence Delilah gives me a space for my alterego to escape from my mundane 9 to 5 job.

I have more questions and thoughts on sex, than answers for it.

In my quest for answers, I shall discover more.

Since young I have been an avid reader of stories , adult sex stories.

Words turn me on more than visuals.

Even if you have to mute the XXX video, I still would get turned on not cos' of the visuals but more of the imagined sounds and conversations I have in my head. At one point in time, I thought I was addicted to sex. Maybe in a strange way, I am addicted to it. Addicted to the thought of sex, but when sex does occur, the rush and excitement most always dies down.

So if asked who or what can turn me on the most, I would say it has to be my mind - my Delilah mind, when I am not Delilah.

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