DIY stripper

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Most average women are not comfortable in their own skin. 

They rather get humped in the dark, or with some semblance of cover or clothes on them. 

Come to think of it, it is rather scary to have men get you laid in the dark. If he can't see your face, would you still think that he realise he is fucking you?

I'm not sure if the men find our not-perfectly-curved bodies sexy. That don't matter to the men, I guess, just as long as you can tease them and make them feel they want to grab you right there and then. 

Here's one tip to embrace Delilah (remember, it is all about the art of seduction):

Strip slowly.

You can imagine yourself to be an actress playing the role of a stripper, or you can pretend that you are a stripper. 

The key to stripping sexily for the amateur is to forget he is watching your every move. Just focus on yourself, and strip like you enjoy stripping. Men like to see that their women enjoy doing something, especially if that something is directly related to the woman's body. 

One button at a time, bend down a little, flick your long hair off your shoulder, bite your lip..you know, the common routines you see on the screen.

Imitate the actresses (porn or not), and improvise! 

When you are game enough, you can do the strip from head to toe at a distance from him. Instructing him that he cannot do anything but simply watch, and wait for you to undress. 

But if your nerves are frayed from the mere thought of stripping for him, just as I did for my first strip, it helps that you get on top of your man, unbutton your blouse (but leave one or two buttoned), lift your hands up, and pull the blouse off. That should do the trick to get him excited, and to get you get over your nerve-wrecking moment. This can be done in 30 seconds. By then, you would have his eyes fixed on your boobs and skin, that he would be more than willing to help you strip.

If this is your first time stripping, or if you are feeling uneasy, always inform your man before the act. Tell him something of this line , " I have never been too comfortable undressing in front of a man, but for you, I'm going to try my best". That should do the trick - he will be more merciful with you. It would also probably be a turn on for him, knowing that you are going the extra mile to please and pleasure him.

If all of these still cannot calm your nerves, dim the lights. I say, dim, not switch it off.

Dimmed lights can create a sensuous ambience, which may give the illusion that you are good and confidently stripping for him.