sex your talk

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If you are thinking that your man will get all snuggly and lovey after 'the talk', then you get the formula wrong.

Men don't need the talk. Women do.

What men need is the 'after-talk'. Your man will get all snuggly and lovey. That is if they are getting sex.

The right formula in getting your man to be the 'listen-to-me-comfort-me' man is to offer a truce. Yes, listening to women-talk is painful for some men. So, you give them the possibility of a truce. Listen to me, after that, you let him sex talk you. You let him start his conversation with you.

Continue this conditioning technique for a few times, and you'll see that he gets IT. He simply need to listen up, and then he gets his fill for the night/day/hour whichever that satisfies your man's appetite. When you make this a routine, by some miracle or chance, he may actually come around to communicating with you better because he will see that if he responds well to you, you are going to give it to him good (aren't you?).

Pavlov will be very proud of himself; man needs some conditioning, or if you'd rather, rewiring to get him get the formula right. With some help, and lots of drill-and-practice, sex is in your cards. No longer do you have to have sex when the man wants it.

This time onwards, you get to tell him who's boss : No talk, No sex.

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